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This is Part I of a 2-part series on dating younger women. In Part I, we'll be focused on social factors that have changed and why there's so much pushback against older men dating younger women in the West.

Part II will be our "how-to" - that is, how to date younger women as an older or younger man. There's something of a stigma in the West right now against older men and younger women while younger men and older women is often considered right as rain - and maybe even ideal!

Throughout history, it's been common for older men to select younger women as their brides, across cultures, nearly universally.

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It would appear we live in a strange and rather unusual period in history, where sexual norms have been turned upside down and positioned on their heads. But look a little closer, and you'll see that even in the West - even in the United States, bastion of feminist sentiment right now - steer clear of unattractive women with bones to pick, and you'll quickly 21 year old man looking to get dirty that - at least among pretty younger women - this "stigma" against older men dating younger women is primarily the figment of a small group of the media's imagination.

Let's sweep aside the deliberate confusion of the rabble-rousers and have look at what actually goes on out there in the real world of older men and the younger women they date.

I sat at a Wanna chat with a nice guy in San Diego, eating lunch with a colleague of mine and our supervisor, a Navy captain the rank just below admiral in the U.

The CAPT was 59 years old, but about as charismatic a guy as you'd ever meet. At the time, my charisma was good - it was early - but I still had some work to do, and I was maybe half as smooth with women then as I am now.

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Our barmaid - a pretty blonde who looked about 25 or 26, my age at the time - served us our lunch, and the CAPT and I took turns flirting with her.

To my surprise, while I did well with her, he did better - and it was genuine I'd flirted and picked up enough hired guns at that point to be able to tell the difference. Still, reactions vs. A few months later, the CAPT and that same colleague traveled to Pennsylvania for a conference, and the colleague reported how at dinner 21 year old man looking to get dirty our last night in town, lookimg watched CAPT mesmerize an attractive, buxom waitress in her mids, who, at the end of the dinner, slipped him her phone number and told him opd get in touch the next time he was in town.

Aren't older men who like younger women " dirty " - not " cool " and " attractive "? The same friend of mine I had the debate about how much looks matter with a little while back also did his darnedest to convince me that after about o,d years old or so, all hope of ever landing women under 30 was extinguished.

Better be 12 with older gals Dirgy, it doesn't hold its water. There ARE plenty of older men who successfully date younger women. Though it's ALSO true that the majority don't. The majority stick to women in their age range, either by choice ,an the people pushing the "older men CAN'T get younger women If you're reading this site though, I think it's safe to assume you're not terribly concerned with what the average man is doing, and are more interested in the anomalous men Well, it's true; when it comes to a man's age, there is a big kan in what women look for and consider attractive.

Younger men are unprovenand are expected to 21 year old man looking to get dirty unproven. Thus, a younger man succeeds with Cyber sex Jalhay by advertising his potential to be a success.

The younger men who do best with women are the ones who exude ambition, confidence, energy, and signs of potential future achievement. Older men are provenand are expected to be proven.

Thus, an older man succeeds with women by advertising loooing already achieved success. The older men who do best with women are the ones who exude authority, confidence, power, and signs of secured achievement.

We'll explore this a lot more in-depth in our second part of this series, "Attracting and Dating Younger Women.

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The fact is, most older men ole ordinary: It means, in fact, that these ordinary older men are worse choices lookint younger rirty than younger men are. Meanwhile, an older man who's ordinary is never going to be anything more than ordinary. And because most older guys are ordinary - and therefore undesirable - just like nice guys who don't know their places, they're liable to raise women's instinctive "disgust" instinct - a protective 21 year old man looking to get dirty to avoid mating with perceived lower quality mates - and Unhappily married weekly drinks labeled " creepy " The women in these couples aren't horribly ugly.

In fact, the ones I meet are relatively to quite attractive. Neither are the men loaded with wads of cash, used to ensnare shark-like women who only want them for their trust funds.

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Rather, many of the older men with younger girlfriends and wives I've met have been relatively normal guys with more or less normal jobs. They were, in other words, successesas success is judged by women. This was true with all the couples except for the gold digger couples and I have met some ; often in these cases, the mothers wholeheartedly endorsed the union, because 21 year old man looking to get dirty was what the mother had trained the daughter to do "Find a rich man to marry - tl men are more likely to be rich, and more Looking Real Sex Mobridge South Dakota to be looking to settle down - so find an older, rich man and marry him".

There is the financial element, of course - older men have more money especially 21 year old man looking to get dirty in Africa, where a very large percentage of sexual relationships involve men paying women for sex. And there's a fear by women of their sexual relationships being discovered mostly true of ALL of a dirtj sexual relationships, outside of relatively committed boyfriend-girlfriend pairings.

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In other words, it's not especially different from the relationship between younger men and younger women It certainly wasn't always this way. In fact, until the s or so, age in dating was treated pretty much the same in the West as it was everywhere else in the world. dirgy

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Portugal girls nude An American father in the s would've been thrilled to have his daughter marry an older man with a stable, established life and career path, rather than some unproven young scoundrel who might turn out well or might drag his daughter to the poorhouse.

My maternal grandfather had 10 years on my maternal grandmother when they married, and no one thought anything of it. The age at first marriage for men and women was separated by 4 years then, and throughout much looiing American history - the average wedding was between of a man four years older than his bride - and if that's the average, you know that means there were plenty more marriages where the two were closer in age, and plenty more where they were farther, as well.

But something strange and anomalous happened in the West that caused a rise in voices complaining about people's dating preferencesand demanding that people STOP dating the people they're dating and date other mqn people because that's what the voices think lookinb "best".

It became 21 year old man looking to get dirty of those ill-fated endeavors destined to fail you can't fight nature and win, and you can't change people's dating preferences by shouting at thembut certain to annoy many people before it did. The source of this boondoggle? Changing social and media pressure instructing women to value themselves differently.

In the mids, a small group of radical feminists began denigrating women who stayed at home to take care 21 year old man looking to get dirty their families, calling these women "oppressed" and "victims", and elevated "employment" as the TRUE height of female achievement.

If only women could make money, then they would then have true happiness. A cultural shift ensued in yaer West, where women were instructed more and more by social and media forces as they grew up that their true worth was in their profession, and nowhere else. Today, women are often embarrassed to admit to being stay-at-home moms.

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The cultural stigma is that women raising children are "lazy" or "oppressed" or "dependent. Subsequently, women's happiness has dramatically declinedas women toiled away in the jobs that men built for themselves to make money to win and impress women, and women's ideas about mating began to shift to that of men's: I'm telling you this as 211 who exclusively dates professional women with advanced 21 year old man looking to get dirty, mind you; I don't think it's a bad thing.

I'm explaining why norms have changed. In just a few decades, the workplace transition in the West had transformed many women's mating habits into men's:.

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Male-Female Differences. In only 20 years, the dating market had shifted from successful men chasing beautiful women and beautiful women chasing successful men, to What men had to offer and were looking for, and what women had to offer and were looking for, now no longer lined up.

And so, the media glorification of financially successful women snagging pretty young men and media excoriation of financially 21 year old man looking to get dirty men dating pretty young women Cheating wives in Joes CO, speaking to Like a moth on love s Booneville new mating preferences of Western woman: Many women had turned into men, preference-wise and lifestyle-wise.

But men kept pursuing the women who still focused on being what men wanted, and ignoring the women whose main accomplishment 21 year old man looking to get dirty their careers Suddenly, there were lots of women unable to parlay their career success into dating success - but rather than point the finger at the media forces that had misled them and told them to focus on the wrong thing all their lives, they pointed their fingers at men and angrily and futilely demanded that men stop competing for the shrinking selection of women who spent more time on Fuck buddy kerkrade pursuits than masculine ones, and pay attention to them instead.

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Older men were a part of the "problem" - elbow to elbow with younger men, all competing for a smaller pool of young, feminine women, while the older career women looked on aghast, wondering what became of the pot of life gold they were promised at the end of the Beautiful couple want orgasm Minneapolis rainbow. A lot of girls - even many of those who built great careers - still saw themselves as "girls," and had little interest in being "men.

The media had fooled some, but not all, and the world hasn't really changed as much as you might think. It sounds like it has, because those with 21 year old man looking to get dirty to push always chase down soapboxes to harp from. But the ordinary folk - people Local Oklahoma City sluts on the streets - a lot of them never bought it quite as thoroughly as those disillusioned souls writing books and appearing on talk shows did, trying desperately to write and talk and shame the world into being the way they want and need it to be to validate their choices.

In " Conflict Between Men and Women in the 21st Century ", I discussed my opinion that most of the so-called "conflict" between men and women you see these days is manufactured by the media and the anonymity and disproportionate preaching power of the Internet.

You can do or say whatever you want online, and it's easy to feel like there are zero consequences. Also, because the Internet is an echo chamber, you never have to hear opposing views if you don't want to, and it's easy 21 year old man looking to get dirty get more and more impassioned as you write some long-winded statement in the comments section for or against something, without anyone ever interjecting to correct you or remind you that this isn't really what we're talking about here.

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A little unusual, sometimes But the woman is never some bimbo with a double-digit IQ. The man is never some scumbag who's bordering on pedophilia.

"Young women look at me and they see someone who looks like their Dad A typical 42 year-old-man, for example, would be willing to date a. So a year old guy can date a year old girl. No problem You don't have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20's. On the Currently I am 21 and dating a 48 year old. We are not. Older men haven't always been "dirty" for dating younger women. But look a little closer, and you'll see that even in the West - even in the The CAPT was 59 years old, but about as charismatic a guy as you'd ever meet. .. If an ordinary 55 year old and an ordinary 23 year old go head-to-head for a 21 year old girl no.

Usually it's a year-old gal with a year-old guy, or something similar to that. The girl's got a decent career, but looking forward to being a mother Lonely bbw women North Utica chapel having a family.

The guy's more established in his career, but he's not an oil baron or anything. He's just a solid, cool, charming older guy. I 21 year old man looking to get dirty hear anyone malign them. I've never seen a fat angry woman walk up to the man and say, "You should date someone your own age! You could have a better career and be dating a 19 year old with washboard abs!

All I ever really here is, "They seem like a nice couple. Point is, when you're out living your life in the real world, there is none of this gossip-y shaming.

Partly that's because people won't dare to say in-person the things they say on the Internet. I call it being "Internet brave. But part of it is also the objectifying, virtualizing effect of the web.

The Man Eater is a woman who has mastered the art of detachment That creates quite a paradigm shift from being used to wanting to be The other day my year-old friend Heidi called me freaking out . May 21, I'm 21 years older than my boyfriend, if that makes me a dirty old Go look up The May December Society, it's a site you join & meet to talk to. At the ripe old age of twenty-six, my delicious man is four years . I was 21 years old when I met the Love of My Life who I found out was 48 .. He makes me so happy that I want to leave my husband who have cheated on me repeated. And I also don't think older men that date younger women are dirty.

When someone's upset about older men jear younger women online, it isn't that nice couple from a few doors down she's thinking about I've seen it surprisingly often in the U. Actually, if anything, they seem healthier and more confident than the majority of couples I see.

They're often closer together. I think both partners get off on it Wait 'til they get a load of the guy I've netted!